New Cougar

Well, I’m new to this whole idea of being a Cougar. I recently found myself divorced after 20 years of marriage to a man who was a master manipulator. After an emotional break up leaving me feeling with little or no self esteem I found myself at 41 in a new city, new job and starting over.. I have always been told I look at least 10 years younger than my age and have kept myself in good shape.

I spent the first few weeks just relaxing at the beach and I began to notice guys checking me out not just any guys but young guys in great shape. I thought I need to have some fun. Men have been dating younger women for years why shouldn’t older women? Honestly, I want nothing to do with a full time committed relationship. Well, I decided to see how much attention I could attract. You’d be surprised how far a little flirting will get you. Soon after, I met this 28 year old in my gym. He was handsome, in shape and exciting with a real wild side to him. We agreed to meet for a drink one night and the sexual chemistry was so intense we barley finished our drinks. I went back to his apartment and we were up most of the night. Needless to say it was the best sex I ever had. He IM’d me the next day to say it was a really hot night for him too and hoped we could get together again. We have met about a dozen times with the occasional booty call. Which, I find amazing especially that I initiate it. I’m totally hooked. I’ve started to think its better to have at least two or three in a rotating schedule. This way no one gets bored and feeling like they’re obligated to call on a regular basis.

Here’s to being single and looking sexy in your 40’s Anyway that’s my two cents for what it’s worth.